Do I walk with pride or slink away vanquished ? My 16 year old has just planned, organised and executed her birthday party for 20 odd kids with finesse and precision that would shame an experienced organiser. She has organised 2 parties-day and sleepover- with bouncy castle, outdoor and indoor music, 2 lots of food and drink, decorated the lounge respectfully, organised games and pre-empted all poss. blunders. All by herself with no adult consultation or involvement (save a trip to transport food). Phew, I have been made redundant as of today !